Monday, August 6, 2012

Where I belong

I've never given the question a serious thought as I've always think the answer is simple, I belong to Singapore. I dare to say that I've always been patriotic to my home country that comes with a history rich enough to unite the people. Though politics come into the picture and divided the nations at times, i still believe singapore is the one and only home. Not to go into details, the focus of the entry is, where I belong.

I've willfully chosen a path that I thought its good for me, to hold on to life acmatic, work with friends to bring the business to life and settle for a near wonderful job minus satisfactory basic pay (the annual package compensated for the dollar values but, it means I will only feel the joy once every 12 mths. Not contented I call it, problem lies with me). Little did I realize commitment levels play a vital role in all businesses and we can't expect the same from everyone. For instance, the commitment level in events hutch drastically thrown facts in our faces that I have to end it before friendships get soured. I'm glad all is intact and we still live happily ever after.

A business that deals with end consumer is never easy, it's even harder when customers are lack of basic courtesy. A learning journey. Apart from that, all is good and we have been dealing well with small earnings and big contentment from the friendships made with customers.

Time flies and it's August now. If I was to end LA now, it means the full time job I am holding now is not relevant anymore. The dream of having 2 events to cover up the few hundreds pay cut from expectation will not gonna happen, and I may need to move on from an officer title.

Relocation is not a bad idea as my parents understand working overseas better than what i am dealing with in LA. They have all the comments to get me to end it. Parent work the same way, they raise us up, expect us to earn big bucks and give them pocketful allowances when we work. I can't afford the old time allowances I used to pay, and that is kind of a disappointment to them. They are not young anymore, senior citizens to be exact. I hope I can provide for a better silver days for them.

If not for relocation, I may just stay put at where I am now as colleagues there are really way too wonderful. They are the strongest magnets to make me feel contented and work my way around.

So end of the day, where do I really belong? Fickle Is every women's middle name. Haha

I think I belong to the sea.

Friday, July 6, 2012

New phases

Went missing for the past one month as I was busy adapting and participating to/in a couple of new phases:)

Let's start with Mingli's wedding! The first official random prime is finally in. Recall how we were all excited when in our teenagers years about having bf and gf included in the clique to make our 7 pax a grand 14 pax? Well all the hype died off when the group starts to drift apart due to differences in work and life commitment. However, the wedding made all those juvenile talks alive again and we lived like a kid for that one memorable day, as though we never got drifted apart before. 

From now till forever :)
Mingli and me, bride and bridesmaid!
Krys Me Qi. The pretty from Random Gang. Oh boy, how we are so grown up!

While waiting for Mingli to Shang Tou. :)
LOL! Mingli trying to accommodate my height
 Skipped the photos that show the torments (for the bros) to save the demure image of us girls.
Me and her sis, removing the pins for the groom and bride

Random minus bride, ledon and fred!

Random gang group photo. Will be nice if fred and ledon were around
 Dinner function
The meows~!
Me and Bai mao, wei qi! 
She damn ons! Qi actually has an exam on Monday but she flew back just for Mingli's wedding. 

The never die friendship since 5:)

Bride and me again!

Dunman High mini gathering. Nice catching up with Ben!
 Texted Mingli few days after her wedding. She was telling me she misses home, her bed and her parents. Not that her newly built home wasn't good, it's just the sentimental self acting up but I must say, she managed her tear flow well on the wedding day. I can so imagine the free flow of tears when I get married off! haha.. Anyway, blissful marriage to you my friend!

So, I've finally started working again! I just had my 'full month' in the new company. It feels surreal but yes I'm back to workforce and quite love what I'm doing now. My colleagues are SUPER funneh! Basically, I am being amused by various jokes everyday and I like the harmony in the office. Where on earth can a deputy GM and various managers behave like classmates with you and live everyday hilariously? Even our GM is spontaneous enough to perform at an upcoming event. I had a lot of fun coordinating the event with the assistance from our superb colleagues, who never fail to brighten up our day from time to time. Though bit stress now, managing internal preps for events while supervising external vendors for delivery, I enjoy what I'm given now =) For once, I think 830am-6pm is not unbearable and I don't count down to after work. A photo grabbed during our recording at a studio! 对面的女孩看过来,特别客串!


Not forgetting my Life Acmatic, Below are some pictures from the few trips we had. More photos to be found at our facebook

Quite into framing and photography lately, do follow me, if keen, at instagram @huimineology ! Not a pro in photography yet so leveraging on the instant photo edits haha Below are the raw photos for admiration :)
无间道 in Tioman

Usual sight, unusual feel. 

After a day's of dive, the sun is celebrating life with us

Before departing the island, Tioman gave me a sight of beautiful sea 

汪洋大海里的小白船

Serene and me!

We caught imposer Lin Feng on board! Oh btw, that's my D6 dive com! whoo hoo!

Wakeboarding day, able to control my directions well now!

Turning in

Hello, I can cross waves now! Next up, small jumps over the waves!

My favourite photo of the day!

Serenity :)


To end off, Here's a picture of my favourite cat on instagram!! @nala_cat

Have a great day everyone!:)





Tuesday, May 29, 2012

Photo Bomb

and here I am after 3405724052 days of disappearance with a bagful of pictorials for sharing!

Prelude of P H U K E T! 
Grabbed some photos I have on hand. The inconvenience of not having a good camera on hand. Needa invest in one soon! Canon S100!
Particularly like this pic of Xanny and the birthday girl hahah cute!

When the rest of us arrived at Phuket:) Trio

and so you see, it was a bunch of divers at Phuket!

Outings and Happs
More outings were arranged after the trip and the following ECP escapade is a mere mention:) 

Wow Eve so zai! blade like a boss, and ride a bicycle with blades on like a pro! ;P

Trio in Sg. Also, the 2 wheels gang:D

The 8 wheels gang!

His virgin trip on 8 wheels yo! Coincidentally, it was Han Yong birthday and he happened to be at ECP! However, given our speed with the "rookies", we missed wishing him well wishes in person. We actually treated Vivian to Seafood International at Big Splash after this to compensate the lack of presents during the Phuket celebration. A wide and well spread of seafood that is reasonably priced! Or probably because we had 10 people to split the bill hahha

Oh! Btw my iPhone lomo lenses are here! going on a photoshoot spree with Krystal and her lomo camera one sunny day and gonna upload more stuff here:D Meanwhile, you may want to follow @huimineology at instagram! 

Before the ECP trip, we visited Jacqueline at her place and made breakfasts with her waffle making machine! We made them from scratch and did up the rest of the add ons - Hashbrowns, sausages, sunny side up and mushrooms! yummy! We had it at her in-house patio under the super hot weather but all's worthwhile:) SLURP! 

The decorated plate:)

Just sharing another piece from my instagram loots:) That's my bangle btw, with my Pooh and Bear bag as the backdrop.

Recently, the talented bf has successfully expanded his business and met up with lots more potential clients. Me? Followed him around with my lappy and work off my macky air! PS Cafe serves yummylicious salads and sandwiches while he business-talked at Starbucks:) Really proud of him to establish the website design biz and reaping sweet success from his works. Good job tbf! Since mine is a humble blog, I didn't get him to do anything to it. You may refer to jjtan.sg for more web designs details! 

So here we are, at Canele! trying to act natural and have a nice side profile picture but yea yea this is what happened when two jokers try to take pictures. Nothing decent but a load of candid laughing model shoots. HAHA ok not model but you do get the drift I hope:) (Only uploaded one, don't wanna bore anyone with the narcissistic self) 

I thought this picture is nice! With good lighting and backdrop minus the spy who tried to peep at him through his Straits Times:) hehe

In our eyes

Had Pool session with the upcoming divers to be, great job!

As usual, I'm on my lappy under the sun at the pool:)

Followed few cats lovers on instagram lately and saw this! SO CUTEEEEE! such a seductive cat with that pink sash! @nala_cat 
Speaking of which, I always wonder if I were a cat in my previous life. I'm attached to fishes as food-on-plate, attracted to the live fishes in the natural aquatic fish bowl when diving, connect better to cats than dogs for sure and admire cats' diary to dog's! see here!

There are two cats fighting outside my house as I type, and we have been trying to lure them down FROM THE RAILING! we are all at the 10th storey and my mum and I were dead worried about the two fighting cats. ok nuff said. Going out to lure them in again! 

Monday, May 14, 2012

All mums are lovely, with or without wrinkles:)

This was the yoghurt cake we had for da jie's birthday in April (Mango yoghurt cake) and this Mother's day (Strawberry Yoghurt cake). I must say, yoghurt cakes are more refreshing and less gelard, the interior is all filled with yoghurt yo! My present to my mum:) Btw this is bought at the basement of Katong I12, minus18C !

Tadah! this is the gift from Da Jie who is in Egypt now for her Holidays. She had arranged for a surprise delivery from the florist (i guess the bag is sold at the same place? else ya im not sure of her arrangements, I'm just a spy to receive the delivery LOL!) on Mother's day and my mama was shocked! priceless, but yay a heart warming Mother's day:)

My er Jie bought her a pair of expensive earrings, shared with dad, and made her a card.:) 

 Guess it's a memorable Mother's day as she is properly thanked for all her efforts in everything. For staying with us through thick and thin, raising the 3 fatties from a poor family, never-forsaking a man who had done wrong again and again, for always carrying a heart big enough to forgive the whole world, taking care of the sickly old man who once spent his live wooing her with his big lorry, and the list goes on. I'm glad that I'm not bounded by the office hours these months, as it gives me the opportunities to chat with my mum more frequently and learn how my dad met her, casted his net and sieved out the best of the best from the women. hehe! I'm always a Mummy's girl, and will always be one even when I get married one day. Another great present this year, JJ's presence at dinner table!:) 

Had lunch with JJ's parents as well, and it seems to me that the family seldom celebrate such occasion, probably due to the small family size. Not anymore! Shall get them cakes and treats when occasions greet us:D 

While we are happily celebrating Mother's day at dining table, we're not going to forget 舅母who is fighting the battle in JB. We visited her few days prior to Mother's day, and I'm glad to accompany my mum during the entire journey. Showed her the way to JB via public transport, and recalled how worried  I was the previous week when she was taking the route alone. She took a longer route, but less complicating. Hence, I took the opportunity to show her the short-cut and rested at this KFC outlet in Malaysia when we finally reached! 

 The Nasi Ayam KFC version hehe!

Reach the hospital, and realize it is quite run down. Or probably, TTSH was too well furnished. Despite the outlook, i heard the hospital is great in terms of their medical aspects as compared to some private hospitals.
The pharmacy area
The best thing of the hospital is, IT IS LOCATED BY THE SEA!!!! sea view hospital yo, near JB custom and City square too.

I see how a big family unites when something happened to one of us. When the news escalate through the generations and families, many make a trip down/up to JB to visit the aunt who has given up all hopes. Without any instructions, everyone contacted each other and set an impromtu roster to take care of my uncle, and release him from the duty when he needs a rest; or simply ask the next batch of visitors to buy some snacks that he can consume within the Hospital that only allow Halal food. Some cousins even went to his house in Kluang just to clean the house for him since auntie had been sick for 2 mths. No one ever asked for any returns, simply because we - are - a - family. We reminded each other about the ang pows, that signify auspicious events that will come along with the "red paper". Traditional ways of showing their well wishes with practicality (money for tonics). Auntie is now waiting for the day that she can consume food, and that will mean she is recovering well. Right now, she is still on drips.

Recall how these relatives rush down to Singapore when my dad was hospitalized, and not a deliberate comparison, but my relatives who reside in Singapore (paternal) weren't as prompt when come to such events. I blamed it on the raising cultures difference, but i always have this unspoken inclination towards my maternal relatives. No intended comparison, I love my family all the same, and thankful for everything that comes along. 

We clinged to our mums when we were infants, toddlers and kid; find them irritating and naggy when approaching the teenage and adolescences stage; wanna break free from them when we reach 21; and finally wish to return to the them when we are working in the cruel society, getting married, giving birth or when their healths are showing red lights. We always run away from a place call home, but realise it is the place call home that we want to run towards. Treasure your mum, they are truly precious:)